Pre-Engagement Indicators
Pre-Engagement Indicators Pray Istikhara and make du‘ā’ before committing, then repeat it. Perhaps Allah will show you what is right. How should two people judge suitability for marriage? There are several essential indicators. If any one of them is missing, stop immediately and reassess. God-consciousness (Taqwa): If he/she fears Allah and seeks His pleasure, proceed. […]
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Thirty Counsels to Make Your Wife Happy
Thirty Counsels to Make Your Wife Happy There is no doubt that responsibility for marital happiness rests on both spouses. Love must exist between them—not the rash surge that flares and fades, but a noble, steady harmony of spirit and feeling. Marital happiness is like a honeycomb built by two bees; the more effort invested, […]
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The Shar‘i Hijab and the Hijab of Hypocrisy
The Shar‘i Hijab and the Hijab of Hypocrisy All praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds alone. May peace and blessings be upon the one after whom there is no prophet. To proceed: Foundations of the Muslim Woman’s Dress A Muslim woman’s clothing must be ample, covering her entire body from men who […]
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To the Muslim Young Woman: The Hidden Pearl
To the Muslim Young Woman: The Hidden Pearl My dear sister, a word whispered to your ear… carried to your heart… offered to your pure soul. To you, radiant jewel; to you, well-guarded pearl—sincere thoughts and precious counsel from a protective brother and a caring father who wants happiness for you in this world and […]
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The Marriage of Prophet Musa (Peace Be Upon Him)
The Qur’anic Account The Qur’anic account of the marriage of Prophet Musa (peace be upon him) provides timeless guidance on faith, modesty, and values that safeguard human dignity. (“فَجَاءَتْهُ إِحْدَاهُمَا تَمْشِي عَلَى اسْتِحْيَاءٍ”) “Then one of the two women came to him walking with modesty.” (Al-Qasas 28:25, Sahih International) This brief yet powerful description shows […]
Advice for the Muslim Woman Preparing for Marriage
Essential Pillars of a Valid Marriage The Guardian (Wali): Abu Musa reported that the Prophet ﷺ said: “There is no marriage without a guardian.” [Abu Dawood] Two Witnesses: “There is no marriage without a guardian and two just witnesses.” [Ibn Ḥibbān] Dowry (Mahr): An obligatory gift of honor from the husband to the wife. (“وَآتُوا […]
The Virtue of Good Companionship (Ḥusn al-Tabu‘ul)
The Virtue of Good Companionship (Ḥusn al-Tabu‘ul) All praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds, and may peace and blessings be upon the Messenger of Allah, Muhammad ﷺ, his family, wives, and companions. One of the greatest qualities of a righteous wife is ḥusn al-tabu‘ul — good companionship with her husband. It means […]
